Seder Nights: Passover Memories Made Together

This year I attended Passover as I always do at a friend's home. For me, the pleasure derived from the food is undeniable, serving both as a comfort and a joy. Yes, with me it is always also about the food. Beyond the gastronomic pleasures, I cherish the rich traditions that accompany the Seder. It's a celebration that beautifully weaves together the threads of family, friendship, and age-old customs. As we gather around the Seder table, the familiar rituals and the warmth of connected hearts foster a sense of belonging and continuity, making this holiday a beacon of togetherness and heritage.

In our present world it feels that tradition has taken a backseat to the immediate and superficial appeal of "likes and subscribers". Yet, in the midst of our digital age, the timeless ritual of Passover Seder stands as a profound and welcomed counterbalance. It reconnects us with our roots and with a narrative that has shaped millennia.

The Seder's structure is a vivid reminder of endurance and freedom. Each element on the Seder plate tells a part of the story of the Jewish people’s exodus from Egypt, serving not just as a symbol but as a tactile form of historical storytelling. From the bitter herbs representing the bitterness of slavery to the charoset symbolizing the mortar used by the Jewish slaves, each food item is steeped in meaning.

This year, as I recited the Four Questions and listened to the familiar stories retold, I found myself reflecting on the significance of freedom in our own times. Freedom from the oppressions of life, certainly, but also freedom from the fast-paced, relentless demands of modern life. Passover offers a chance to unplug from the buzz of notifications and reconnect with family and friends in a setting that values the lost art of simple conversation and contemplation.

Moreover, this gathering wasn't just about looking back. It was about carrying forward. As we wrapped up the evening with the traditional wish of "Next Year in Jerusalem, and my added tradition of singing Go Down Moses," the phrase and singing took on new layers of meaning. It was a reminder of hope and the future, of striving toward peace and understanding, in whatever form that might take in our lives.

In a world where tradition often loses out to trends, Passover asserts the importance of remembrance and community. It's a chance to affirm our values and to look forward with intention and purpose. So, while the delicious food is a significant draw, it's truly the warmth of shared stories and the strength of ancient traditions that anchor the Passover experience.

Let's cherish these moments and the profound lessons they hold, for they teach us about resilience, the importance of history, and the enduring power of gathering together. After all, in times like these, perhaps looking back is the surest way to find our way forward.

Bring on the Brisket!

Pre Seder Eats